Hi, X2, I may be quiet for a few days - death in the family. Have your gotten and read the DB/Dr books? I'll help out as soon as I can, but yes, no contact is a good idea for awhile. It gives her a chance to initiate and it prevents you from (unintentionally) pushing her farther away. When/if she does contact, show her the most upbeat you you can be.
Cheers,
Dia
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