The sex is the big issue to you but what do you think hers would be?
Any chance she is more stressed about finances or the kids than you are aware?
My lack of sexual attraction to H was a result of how juvenile and insecure I felt he was. I wanted sex with a secure man. I know that sounds awful but I felt like I was having sex with an overgrown baby most of the time. I wanted to be taken by someone who knew who he was, took care of business and felt desirable himself.
