Ali, I am a lurker who has recently come "out of the shadows" on this board. I have been following your situation closely since December 2008 and want to tell you how very happy I am for you and BF to have reunited! Your blog has consistently provided interesting discussions of various topics and given much food for thought. Thank you VERY, VERY much to everyone who has contributed to these conversations, and especially to you, Ali, for hosting these discussions!
Your descriptions of your BF remind me a lot of my H, so I have begun reading your entire thread from the very beginning to glean new perspectives on the dynamics of relationships with WASs. I am very curious about what BF says were the primary factors that led him back to you and look forward to the insights that you can provide when the time is right to broach this topic with BF. Thank you so much for sharing!