Forgive me for actually chuckling...that is some insane sh*t! Welcome to the Twilight Zone.
First of all, mind reading or not, I think you have her pretty much pegged in that she is so damned insecure she is relying on other peoples' opinions to guide her. Same in my sitch.
Now, I did lose respect and attraction for my H and I even questioned (in my mind) his sexuality at times. He was always extremely physical but so wishy washy and he emanated a sort of lost puppy vibe so much of the time.
All you can do...Pay attention Thinker. All you can do is man up. She is begging for it. And maybe you will end up walking and that is what manning up is to you. Or maybe you go dark on her. Only you can define what it means to retain your dignity and your nuts.
As far as I'm concerned, she is sabotaging your progress and potential (Retro), she is daring you to leave and calling you a pansy for staying.
Dig deep. Can you man up within the confines of your home? Or do you have to get out?
And by the way, un-friending takes a mere minute and no one needs a whole weekend to do it.
You, Thinker have to grab the bull by the horns and without fanfare, do what you need to do.
Sh*t, I'm starting to agree with Gucci. Maybe you should just blow her off and go on a date...with a woman of course.