How are you doing? I need to catch up on your sitch! I changed my name and I think I got lost in the shuffle.
Yes LR1-- you did get lost in the shuffle! How about Retrovaille? Any chance she'd go? Look it up if you are unfamiliar with it but the couples who host it have been through A LOT WORSE than you have, trust me, I know. And they are working their marriages out, and are glad to be m, so it has helped very troubled M's for years now. Any chance? You could argue that it would even help smooth things out IF you div, so that maybe she'd come without feeling a lot of pressure. It does not hit you over the head with "Staying together at all costs" but rather, shows that you can reconnect, and start over and how worth it, that is...just a thought.
Will catch up more on your thread later. I still think your w is in MLC, but so what? Still hurts the same. keep at it, DETACH and GAL... j-
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016