It is like they say -- only you can possibly know when the time is right in your own sitch to either call or fold. I, for one, know this has been a looong path for you to get to this point. Most of us here know just how long and hard you tried to fight for your M, and how many second chances you gave your H. And the real, unmitigated abuse that you suffered. As much as I am the sort to always support another person's M, I could never gainsay your decision that enough was enough -- because if you, Sue, say enough is enough, then it probably is by this point.
We love you and support you in whatever decision you make.
