Her behavior is perfectly normal for someone in an A. Trust me. Checking her records is not controlling. It's protecting your family.

Controlling is when you tell her she can't use the phone or computer. You have a right to know for the sake of your children.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER