Cipa, this sound like her L talking. Be careful buddy, it looks like things are going to get nasty in the D. She's going to try spin the "he has been spying on me" routine.
Speak to your L about this. Remember she took it to the store to get it checked. Make sure you have your alibi set (I know you installed the software to keep your kids safe on the 'net, but make sure your L knows the motivation for it.)
BTW, I remember you bought it for the kids... so tell your L that she didn't have the right to use it for "personal stuff." Gotta cover your a.. now.
Now go enjoy the rest of the weekend with your sons.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT