It really does sound like she has an OM. How do you know she doesn't? Have you checked her phone records or computer use?
That would make sense though wouldn't it. Who knows - I haven't checked her phone records or computer use. I'm glad I haven't because if I did she would state that I am controlling. She has repeatedly stressed that this is not happening but I don't trust anything coming out of he mouth at this point.
She is erratic and there is obviously a problem. Time will tell but things are looking up at this point in that I think she is starting to see her behaivour may not be normal.