Sam, you're doing a great job of pulling way back.
She was at ease, but you allowed it, by being your nice, wonderful self. Nice shock value in the 90 minute convo!! That was really courageous considering how much I know you want your M to succeed. Be proud!!
Maybe even cut her off a bit more when she starts w/the "dailies..?" (Worried about job, speeding tickets, etc...)
You're an excellent man, husband and father. Let her realize it. StepS13 is leaving, huh? I know you'll miss him, too. Hope all goes okay for him. It sounds like he's not going back to an ideal situation either.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
