Next update. My wife got home late again - I just ignored her.
She asked if I had spoken to my mum as she spoke to my mum yesterday - my wife is saying that this is all my fault and trying to get as much support as possible to justify her actions.
I stated that I had a different perspective on things. She then asked if I still thought she was going through a crisis and I said yes. She stated she had not been having an affair / affairs. At this point I just said it would be best to leave this to the counsellor.
I think she is starting to realise that her actions are highly unusual. The last couple of days she has been helping out more with the kids (she actually packed their bags today) but she basically isn't home.
The kids are stating mum is never at home / she is always out. Her behaivour is not that of a married woman with 2 kids - pure & simple. There is no justification for her actions.
I'm starting to feel much better because she has sort of tried to blame this all on me (exxagerations & lies) and now it is coming to a head and I think the truth is starting to come out.
I haven't handled this well but I haven't been too bad.
