T,
I'm sure it is ridiculous...but keep in mind that the man has massive problems now.

I'm not saying to agree to what he wants, or even to return his calls. I think you are right to continue to court.

I'm just saying to realize that he lost family members just recently, he's broke, he is not in a good R, and he is under a lot of pressure.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D