Stacy, Obviously I would rather that he was not seeing her. I know that we are divorced and he has every right to date whomever he chooses. It is really no different than anyone else here... I can't control his actions, even more so since we are actually divorced, and can just let him know my feelings then leave him alone to make a decision. The "where" issue is really just one of my boundaries that I do feel that I have some control over.
I know that he feels torn and confused. He has many changes to make in his life and I honestly do not want to be in a relationship (marriage) with him if he does not want to make those changes. I have committed to my family and made changes. He sees them but does not trust that they are real yet. I think he is an idiot for telling me he still has feelings for me and still continuing to see his new girlfriend, but my choices are move on or be patient. I have prayed and prayed about this and know in my heart what I want. I just need to continue to let him make his journey and see what God's will for our lives is.
