Hey M--I have to admit I spent last night catching up on your thread, and was so dumbfounded I needed a day to process. My heart aches for you. I cannot imagine after going through the struggle to determine whether or not to reconnect w/ your H, you now have to deal w/ this BS.
I read that book Venus and Mars Starting Over...don't know if you have, but it was really insightful. You are allowed to be angry, and should feel angry until you don't anymore. There is not one person on the face of this earth that would fault you for that. But this book also says that we, as women, generally try not to do the whole "anger" phase, and that is where we don't heal.
Hugs Sweetie...I think you deserve tons of them right now.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
