yes, and I am trying to decide how dark.

With her I think dim because she has a way of reading things to the most extreme, afraid she might think I went back to the OW or that I might be dark because I hate her. She is what people call an absolutist in every way.

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Me 36
W 28
Married 02
Separated 9/08