Well I finally opened up ex's proposed child support reduction due to son turning 18. I have two other kids, so it gets reduced from 3 children to 2.
It was a joke, very very low like anticipated.
Court here we come..
Ex kept calling me and leaving messages for me to sign the forms and send them in. I will not return any of his calls.
It is driving him nuts that I won't talk with him.
Last edited by TRUSTING; 08/14/0901:41 AM.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, Stay the course. Of course it's driving him nuts...he's lost control once again. He knows he's screwed up royally and now he can't manipulate and/or control you. Poor little fool.
Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Ex and OW are taking another cruise in a couple of weeks === run run run run........
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Seems to me like your H is expecting you to pay for his trip T by agreeing to reduced maintenance. Just like my H is expecting me to pay for his new baby by trying to take away any benefits I am currently entitled to for D14.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
hope you are well.