First of all, I want to apologize for my absence. Things have been so crazy and hectic the past few months that every time I would sit at the computer I would either get distracted by some issue or forget to sign in and post an update. Then the reconciliation happened...and it's been a whirlwind. Okay...for those of you who don't know, my wife has been on again off again for nearly three years now. It's the ILYBNILWY thing. Except in February she filed for divorce and got my papers.
I used the the DB techniques and on Easter Sunday she tells me she's having second thoughts about the divorce. A week later she has not only called off the divorce, but pulled the filing.
Now, I was laid off in January and was having tough luck finding a job. If anyone is in my position, you know what I'm talking about.
Sunday morning she hands me a letter telling me that she wants a divorce. She says that she's tried, that we've been through marriage counseling twice, and she even called off the divorce to keep the family together. She says we'd all have been better off if we had divorced two years ago.
I cannot believe this is happening again. I am not a terrible person. I have never laid a hand on her or the children. I do not do drugs. I have never cheated.
Ironically, I was called for a job interview on Wednesday, Interviewed, and got the job on Thursday.