So I really understand your mixed emotions -- you want your children to enjoy a lot of positive experiences, but not with people who have been proven to be morally bankrupt.
Exactly!! And I think you handled your situation well. I suppose I will become less sensitive to it as time goes on. The fact that it had been going on for 8 months without my knowledge--in fact, it had been intentionally denied--really took the wind out of my sails.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012