Once and for all -- get those girls in counseling. We're sick and tired of you making excuses. This has been going for MONTHS and is a SERIOUS issue regarding your DAUGHTERS.
You're the one getting all the advice needed as far as getting them help, and you don't do it.
And if you do it on your own, so be it. It's the right thing to do, and not because it would look good to a judge. At this point, if any judge granted you sole custody of your girls, that would be a grave mistake. You are not capable of being the primary caregiver.
I just hope you can live with yourself if it turns out that their emotional and mental well being suffers -- because that's all on you, my friend. Especially with your 11 year old starting middle school, which is he!! on girls w/no family issues. Wake up Kevin -- if you can't get this done, there's no hope left for you.
And thank you for inquiring about my BIL. He lapsed into a coma last night, and it won't be long. Everyone is holding up. I'm just happy to be able to spend so much time all of them.