Also, H is flying 4 family members out here in a couple of weeks, telling me he would like S6 to stay with all of them during that time. I don't know why I would think I would be invited to join, since we are getting a D, I do know that it triggered me in that special way by reminding me I'm no longer a member of the family.
I catch myself thinking he scheduled that on purpose, knowing it would have a desired effect. Really who knows, he may not even have considered anything deeper than wanting to spend time with them, & I really don't think it changes anything.
