Cat, I know in general I don't have a whole lot of time to be "myseterious" either - too busy trying to keep up with the day to day but I am changing up little things. If he asks where I am/have been I will tell him as it is not a secret but don't volunteer necessarily. Interestingly, he called me the other night and I was a bit evasive about where I had been and it seemed to irritate him a bit.