Thing's are moving right along & I'm finding myself in a confused state, bordering on panic here & there.
Now that I've expressed to H it's too late to do anything but go thru w/the D, when I get an email like I got this morning about him filing a motion for bifurcation (where the D goes thru w/out having all the financial & custody issues completed), I start to question whether I'm making the right decision.
I can see how involving another person puts pressure on following thru with what you've expressed as your desire to be done w/your M.
I'm not making any moves right now, since H is out of town until Sunday, and new guy until Monday. It may be a case of severely cold feet on both fronts.
I've taken such a hard line now with H that it's done, I don't know anyway out that wouldn't weaken my position & show some cracks in my resolve.
