It is much more effective to make them wonder what is going on than any words can say....
Ha, you are so right. The more I look back. But, it effectively makes him nuts and he starts acting like an idiot...for example when I went away and he was texting me about the guy I was with (I wasn't with one)...
I know it gets to him but then what? How do I handle his acting out (which he eventually drags the kids into by doing things with them that he knows I don't want him to, asking me if it is ok if he does those things, brings up other women he's interested in etc).
