Probably remind yourself hourly, and every 5 min when you are with her. Stop asking her anything about whether she'll file, which she obviously cannot afford to do now, or any questions about her including how she is or how she feels, unless she is on the ground clutching her chest. She is on her own PER HER WISHES and does NOT want you in her life. Period. If you continue to hound her, emotionally or mentally following her around like a puppy as you have been, or lashing out and snapping at her when you get too frustrated b/c your sole focus on her IS frustrating, (it's hard as heck for us to watch), but if you keep this up much longer, you will always be in a committed relationship ALONE, whether she files this month or in a year. That's it K4. You are blowing it in every way you can. To me, the biggest challenge I have even posting here, is watching how you let yourself AND your daughters down, again.
Your ONLY concerns now are your girls, your job, your growth as a man (GAL) and your recovery. You should NOT to be talking to her OR US about her wishes, her finances, her dating, her problems, her sleeping with OM, or not or what that might mean, or her morals, or your view of her thoughts or your thoughts about her plans, or your view of her morals (work on YOURS and speak NOT of others, you know "the splinter and the plank"??). And No more self righteous preaching, please, you have wasted space and time and energy that should have gone to the kids and your recovery.
How is the c going for your d's? How is THAT GOING?? Please don't ignore that question. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
