I just wanted, too, to pop in and say how very impressed I am with how you've been handling yourself. The payoffs aren't, of course, entirely under your control ... but they ain't accidents, either.
I was wondering if you've read "Passionate Marriage" by David Schnarch. You are already practicing some of his precepts, and for some reason you just "sound" like a person this book would really resonate with. I highly recommend it.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
