Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Dia - Glad that my thread helped a little. I havent checked your thread, but good luck.
Mish - Thanks for your kind words, how are you doing? I must find your thread later now I have more time, I have spent the last month moving house and starting two new jobs, ridiculous!
Michelle.. yes, who'd have thought it hey? I guess we nearly got back together last summer, then there was Helen and luckily for me, she wasnt that great a gf! Or as BF said.. she wasnt you.
Addie - Its tricky, I have this urge to talk talk talk.. but he can only handle little bits now and then, so I have to bite my tongue, or just trust that the conversations will happen, or sometimes, the moment passes and it didnt need to be said afterall...
Julia, T, Lisa...girls, thankyou for your kind words, your smiles and jigs!! Where would I have been last September, when I found out about Helen and you were all there for me?? Ditto Andabelle, Kat and Dawn!

Rob.. thanks for keeping up with me, I dont know if you still have a thread? I guess you have a gf now, good for you! I'm not surprised, good looking hunk like you I am curious as to what DB techniques he picked up on, I havent had a chance to ask him yet.. but I really want to (without being too obvious about it!). Who knows, probably he didnt notice at all! Although, he did say he could see I had changed.

I asked him if he felt G and Cher had helped us, to get back together? Initially he said he didnt think so (thought it was inevitable) but when I said I did and how they kept us both informed and passed on valuable info and got us out on nights out.. he changed his mind and said he realised G had helped alot in fact, as G told him I was still single, talked about him alot and my GAL. I always said that the wider circle of friends were quite key in my sitch in keeping connections between us, my hope alive and him informed of my GAL, which got him interested and worried about me meeting someone else!