I just heard from a friend that I should get another female dog, name it <OW's name>, and when I feel the need to yell about "that crazy b***h," I'll have a good excuse and D13 will never know! After all, OW's first horse has MY name (oh, yeah, and since she's deeply spiritual and all, she and xH considered that a "sign." Of what, I'm not sure--perhaps a sign of looking for rationalizations?!)

Last edited by hoosiermama; 08/14/09 03:49 PM.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012