Divorce not busted 2

[C-Bart]

Gima,
That's one of the risk with an IC. They are really there just to support the clients direction. Michelle talks about this in detail in her books. They are a reflection of the clients perspective more than anything else. In that respect they are no more helpful than a well meaning family member.

My W did something similar to yours in that she set out to destroy my image (in her mind if nothing else) through IC. Dwelling on all the bad to get reassurance that what she was doing (WAW) was justified. In the end she got what she thought she wanted but is no better for the experience. Watching someone you love struggle can be the hardest part of letting go.