@ blue - thank you, blue. In general though, he's been wonderful and supportive for me, so I can't really fault him in the overall.
@ Mac - Thanks, Mac. I went to the mom and pop surf shack and burger joint (does that translate?) at the bottom of the hill and got myself a double sourdough bacon cheeseburger and an order of sweet potato fries. I could only eat half, so I shared with FIL after he got home. It was just what the Dr. ordered.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137