The short answer is: ILYBNILY. - That is what she tells me anyway. But then she adds the caveat "... But sometimes I do feel like I am in love with you". She has resentment for the way I treated her a couple of years ago. I was not always the greatest husband and did not help out nearly enough when the children were younger. I was not supportive of her career at that time either. She has good reasons to be upset for those things. However, she agrees that I have changed now. But she says those feelings for me have not come back.