He has to paint you as this mean, vindictive, shrew to OW and anyone else to justify himself. He gets more sympathy from her that way. He also doesn't want her to get insecure and start snooping where she doesn't belong. What an amazing day it was when OW and I put the puzzle pieces together....oh the lies he told.
Keep going! You are doing great!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
