Quote: why bother to be married if you live seperate lives and what excites you and keeps you happy does not include the spouse at least most of the time?
OMG, this is me. I lived a separate life, what excited me and kept me happy didn't excite my H nor inlude H most of the time, by my choice. I was perfectly happy with our M the way it was, but H wasn't and oh what a surprise I had waiting for me.
NOW and only now am I able to see what a M is really supposed to be, I didn't know how to be married before this all happened now I do. Family is the most important thing and my H should be the most important thing in my life. If this doesn't work with H, then someone else I meet might find me his dream mate....
Your H is headed for a 2x4, maybe not any time soon, might be later from what I'm reading in your post and I have the feeling it'll be too late for your H and your R at that point. Maybe H NEEDS a 2x4..I'm not suggesting anything here, just putting something out to see how you react .....I gotta go now..lol...
Cathy
my reaction?? well I had to read this a few times...sleep on it...think about it...and I don't know what the heck to think about it.
.....I gotta go now..lol...
