Sucking me in to the vortex! Must fight it hard! LOL
He came for a visit yesterday (yes, Thursday!). I forgot what day it was and when he said he was coming down I just said ok. Friendly, nice, talkative. We did talk alot about the d14. She is really taking a bad road already and if someone doesn't rein her in its not going to be pretty.
Went to dinner with my daughter and baby. He texted right in the middle of dinner and asked where we were and I told him. He assumed we were with my bf. I just laughed and said 'yeah'/
Later last night he started texting about my bf...and I finally answered honestly about that. Probably shouldn't have, but I did.
"our daughter got screwed out of a real family. She is the most important thing to me and I owe it to her to make her life as undysfunctional and uncomplicated as possible. Dating would only complicate things."
His response? "I understand. I want to spend as much time with her as I can and we can see where it goes from there."
WTF does that mean? We...? What is scary about exh is he can pretend like he is Mr. doing the right thing and then use it to do something vindictive.
I also asked him if his kids were there and he said no. I was feeling smarta** like and I asked where the gf was...
Him:i dont know why? Me:you don't know where she is? Him:no, stop! Me: LOL weird.
Yeah, I need to back out. I am treading on dangerous waters. Just bored I guess and its nice to have someone to talk to even though its him and he is so toxic.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
