Hey Kev, Good to hear you are doing ok, for the most part. It does take time. Life, is not so bad. I realized I totally let go of the rope, when I really & truly had zero expectation that my M would work. For me, it was a huge weight off my shoulders. I didn't really have to monitor myself, what I did or said. I could simply try to be my xh friend. That's all, that simple.

Wow! Wee man is turning 2 already! The terrible 2s that should be fun! smile


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)