Newsflash guys... a woman eating a popsicle in your immediate vicinity does not entitle you to an "icee" as soon as she's done.
Two nights in a row I have declined H's advances, and two nights in a row he has taken care of it himself. Wednesday night H wanted sex and was at full attention, and since he wasn't doing anything other than presenting himself, I ignored him and went to sleep. A few minutes later I feel the bed shaking as he takes care of the situation himself. Last night, as soon as I was finished with my popsicle, he presents his d!ck for oral action and again I ignored him. He retreats back to his side of the bed, we watch a little TV and I roll over to sleep when the show is over. Again, I feel the bed shaking as he takes the situation in hand.
In my head, I interpret his "taking care of business" as pressure/guilt trip. You kow, he has to do it himself since I won't. And last night, as soon as he was done, he's angrily re-arranging pillows, sheets, loudly closing the bathroom door, etc., and this morning was still giving me the cold shoulder. I am so glad to be at work and away from him. I didn't say anything about holding out for a week because a) I just want to play it cool and see what he does, and b) I don't think I should have to give an explanation if I don't want to!
Right now I feel angry and anxious because he's acting like a brat. We leave for a wedding in MI tomorrow and luckily D16 will be along for the ride (it's a 4.5 hr trip each way) and sharing the motel room tomorrow night so that should keep him on his good behavior while traveling. I'm dreading tonight though. I'm really wondering if the MC is going to accomplish anything, I have my doubts.
