No you shouldn't be satisfied with the status quo. You need to fight for a better r. Keep changing and encouraging h to meet you, grow with you. Don't give up hope until he tells you to your face it's over.
Cindy
it's not over at all in his mind...as far as I can tell from him...he's as happy as can be (well other than when the kids are acting up) with his life and doesn't seem that there is anything lacking in it for him (though that is the way I thought of him before I discovered his "friendship" with ow...so then he must be missing something as I don't think he is seeking that kind of r from me or perhaps he's just resided himself to the "family" life as well)
there's little to fight for...as I am full aware of the fact that I can have my own life and can do things that make me happy been through the cylce plenty of times before...but making myself happy completely independantly of h is in my opinion a waist of a m..why bother to be married if you live seperate lives and what excites you and keeps you happy does not include the spouse at least most of the time?
