Truth is we`re all here because we all need to change ourselves. The enemy is within.
And Sandi was probably sent by St Michael to tell you-and the rest of us DB newbies-where we`re falling down!
That detaching thing is so damn hard. I`m finding Melanie Beattie`s "The Language of Letting Go" helpful. She`s writeen extensively on the co dependency issue.
Gary Zukav`s The Heart of the Soul is excellent for helping us use our inner God given resources too.
Cat and Mach have written extensively and wisely re MLC on my threads. Great to have wise words in this dark place.