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LL,

You are home! I don't even have a home now. You've done enough studying, it's not your H's job to make you happy, you have to make yourself happy! And I don't mean with your big johnson either. I mean by having a fulfilling life with your kids and family. Your H is home too, make the best of it. My kids grew up so fast it is unbelivable! Enjoy every second! When they are grown, then you can dump the SOB and become a WAW! Hell, it's acceptable now a days: get married, have kids, raise them, get divorced!






that tony, is exactly what I'm trying to avoid...
if I simply go about making myself happy and enjoying the family with my children and h stays just the breadwinner and sometimes partner and father then eventually will I tire of this m? will I reach a point where I say enough is enough...I've put in my dues...I raised the family now it's time for me to have a full and involved r with another adult? will h by then have grown and realized there's more to life than work and football? or will he stay the same and I'll just move on and away from him?

LL