I don't think Orich would have to do more than a few 180's to act mysterious enough to get his W's attention and wonder what he's doing and get her focus on him instead of it being the other way around. Of couse she isn't expecting him to cheat and as I don't think he should either. Why break one of the Commandments of God and bring on a whole other set of problems in the M? What I'm saying is that Orich needs to do something else to cause her to be curious about his comings & goings. He can do very innoncent things like going to the mall to walk around and look at some new clothes, but he doesn't have to give her all the details. I don't believe in lying in order to be mysterious, but just don't give a play by play of every thing so it makes her wonder. A few times of him going out looking hot & sexy and acting up beat about it...should cause her to wonder if there is more to it, and that gets her attention on Orich...where it should be. I haven't expressed it as well as MWD in her book, but she does teach doing this as part of the DBing. I think his WAW needs to be shook up and see the man she has, but he's got to do more than follow her around acting pitiful and feeling sorry for himself.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
