Problem is brain is spinning a bit about the text message.....
My wonderful W in the text said again
"...Going to safe on the monthly bond off the house as well".
I was totally confused about the "as well" bit until I remembered that the W said a long time ago that I'd told her "I couldn't afford her".
That's what she thought (bad word) I'd said. Never did. Never would.
But that "thought" must have hurt her so much. The one person she could depend on saying "can't afford you".
There simply has to be a way of telling her that this was not the case. Never was and never will be.
Looks like this is the LAST shot in my direction. Shows she has been thinking about things.
Guys - my W is the most wonderful, caring person you are ever likely to meet. But she's a little immature or guileless (she married me). I don't mean that in the way it comes over. Can't think of the right word. She sometimes struggles with concepts. I can see the wheels turning over slowly. She does get there but it's a struggle. You know what I'm trying to say? One of the reasons I love her so much.
So - you're going to say again - over-thinking things. Not. Finished thinking.
Need some doing. WHAT? And don't say - work on yourself - doing that already.
