Disconnecting more each day

[peacetoday]

so
It sounds like your W is still living there with you
They say chances are better for R if spouse stays home
she wants you to woo her
Im sure you thought of this but maybe M cnseling would help if she is the least bit interested in working on things
if she is not, I read that friendship is a start
to work on that
I dont think there is an easy answer here
You say you tried many things and nothing has worked
If it is MLC, it is long
so I guess as long as you have a desire to R M
keep going for now
ultinatuns dont seem to work for MLCers
I have read that even once the was seems a little interested in working on M, it still seems to take tons of time
good luck
peace