OK, well, I doubt she is going to worry about O cheating since she is well aware of his religious convictions.
25 MLC, so happy to hear that you went to Retrouvaille and had a good experience there. Now you know what I have been trying to tell people. It's great to hear someone else saying the same thing I do.
Orich, i think you two will do fine at Retrouvaille. She will open up, maybe not as much as you do, but you will definitely get some answers to your questions. That is something they are very successful at.
As far as the IC's recommendation. I think it would be good to have more communication pre-Retrouvaille if possible. But I am sure that you will not solve your problems before you go. So, yes, some communication improvement would be good, but I don't recommend pushing to get to a deep level. So I would say, try talking about things that aren't hot button issues. For example, maybe you could discuss things relating to the children and school. You probably won't even get to the sex issue at the Retrouvaille weekend. That may not come up until the Post sessions. I do think there are a lot of small questions you ask us that you could ask her about, such as what restaurant does she want to eat at. Just try to talk to her like a friend. Going into Retrouvaille as friends would put you light years ahead of most of the people at the weekend.
