My wife is doing all the same things. The going out part as well. My wife is beautiful and she goes out dressed to kill. Most times I leave the house before she gets ready because it is hard to look at her before she goes out. I have been able to just stop asking and stop caring about who she is with and where she goes or what time she comes home. However, for the first two months it drove me nuts. I did think she was having an affair the first two months. About 98% sure she isn't. Whether we are together or not in the future, I have no control over it. She is the one making the choices and has to deal with the consequences. I have been doing my fair share of taking care of the kids as well. I have started to go out more. In fact, doing it this saturday. She doesn't seem to care much either. She knows I will be out on a boat with a bunch of people including single women. She actually told me if I can't wait for her to figure things out, that I should go find someone else. She has told me last thursday(because I pushed the Relationship question) that she wanted a divorce. Going on day 7 of "acting" happy around her and not asking the R questions. Nothing we can do but stay the course if we want a shot at this working out.
Good Luck.
Remarried 6 mo S 12 S 13 S 16 SD 12 SD 16 SD 17 SS 19
