Quite an on target remark about the 50 years. The talking part is one that I really need to work on. Somebody asks how I am doing, and it just comes out...That will have to stop. I am going on day 7 without anger or a relationship talk. I responded to Cat with a letter I found. I knew there was baggage when we got married 15 years ago, but I had no idea it ran this deep. When I say this came out of left field, I mean it did. I knew when she started facebook back in January, there was something not right. She posted about 40 pictures and I wasn't in one of them. Then the reconnection with the old college friends...then the going out all the time dressed to kill which she still does once or twice a week. She won't do anything with my family or friends because she knows they have already "judged her"
I appreciate the directness. I will keep thinking of the 50 years and that this is a large speed bump in the middle....
Thanks
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