As for following the 'logic'... that is where the addicts can seperate the two acts as being totaly different in their minds.

He does not 'love' them, he just loves what they do for him.


Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09