Just got back from the movie, went to see GI Joe and it was pretty good if you like action! I called my friend who is a personal trainer and she is coming over to my apartment complex gym on Monday to set me up on a program and don't worry, she is a friend to both of us and there is no chance of anything between us.
I can spend as much time with my kids as I want. That is one area where she is being very good in all of this. She is flexible and wants them to spend as much time with me as I want. Right now, they are spending the night with me 3 nights per week and I spend all day on Sunday with them and her too some going to church, playing, ect. The other 3 nights per week she has them. That will probably change some once school starts but we need to get that setup.
I am definitely giving her space and taking this time of no more MC to give her a break and space, with no pressure about being with me. Who knows if that will change anything but that is all I know to do at this point.
As far as me, like I said earlier I am setting up a workout program at my apartment and will probably get her to train me once per week or every two and then I will do the others myself. I can't really afford a full-time trainer right now. I definitely need to get back into the groove on working out as weight has been an issue for me for the last 10-12 years. I need to lose a good 35-40 pounds and need to do it now! I am continuing to work on my spiritual health as well and will have my men's group starting back up every Friday morning next month. I take the kids to church almost every Sunday and will continue that as well as reading the bible and other books. My apartment complex also has a golf course on it so I have been playing a lot of golf and that is part of my rent so no expense there. Football season is starting next month also and I am a huge fan and we have our college team here and I will be going to all of the games. Once I lose the weight I am looking to lose, then I will go out and update my clothes, although I think I have always been a good dresser and I think wife would agree although its pretty conservative (Polos, jeans, khakis, ect.) Nothing wild.
Anyway, thats what I am doing right now and if you or anyone has other suggestions, I am all ears.
