I suggest opening the remaining bags of spinach and make some great dip. Your W has no right to be bitching at you...set boundaries. My W tried that a few times with me and I put it to an immediate stop. I didn't have a right to disrespect her and vice versa. Does your W respect you? My W responded to firmness. Remember, women respond to strong confident men. You don't have to be rude when setting boundaries. What happened to no more nice guy? What would Gucci say in such a situation?
Just trying to help...not trying to be mean. When you mentioned your "nice guy" complex, it became very obvious to me. Is it time for a 180? You don't realize how much leverage you really have in your situation. Your W is not going anywhere any time soon. I also bet that there are plenty of women in your area that would consider you a great catch. You have come a long way since your first post.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009