LL, you are going through a LOT of changes now...and your R will change, too. You are becoming a better person, a more loving, other-centered person. Just don't EXPECT H to become other-centered overnight....it will happen, in time, as he responds to the wonderful changes in you. Patience, faith, tolerance, and love, LL...you've got all of these great traits. Keep putting them into practice...water seeks its own level...simple physics, dear, so if you are a great, loving, considerate mate...your H will grow into one, too! You can do it! Don't let fear interfere with your progress!

I am responsible for my own happiness.