Wow, that I forgot to post this says a lot about where my head is at atm.
Called H around 1 pm today to get FIL's cell number. He was laughing on the phone with me because of the way I had phrased the request and in the background, a co-worker asked him who he was talking to.
H (off to the side): It's my wife.
Hmmm, cool. Even tho we're not divorced, he's been calling me his ex-wife as far as I know, including to my face. Even in a dark day, it felt good to hear the W word.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137