I'm sorry to hear about what you saw. That has to suck. I hear you about selling everything. I'm in the process of doing just that right now.
Soco, No worries there won't be any train rides!!
I'm at a place right now that I really need to start working on saving me again. Not so much from all this MLC BS, but financially.I received some bad news this week. I have to get through this, there is no other option. Right now I need to deal with all of this. For me and my children. I'm in a real fix in more ways the one.
When it comes to my X, I need to step back. It has been really tough trying to deal with her and all of this other stuff.
The facts are that I have only been divorced for about four months, a relatively short time in the grand scheme of things. Yes my X is showing positive signs toward something. Who knows what? Another fact is that this relationship she is in, is a joke, but she has him around the kids a lot and also has him over to her family's place. There is more to it than she is letting on. It's more than just "dating."
I am well aware that she is incapable of a healthy R. Nevertheless she is involved with him.
I have to focus on what I'm going through right now and continue to live life like she is never coming back.